a different perspective

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It took a stranger to be rude to me
for me to realise what a jerk I’d been
that my sick wife who was grumpy earlier 
had every right to be 

Here I was actually being nice and apologetic 
to this rude ugly woman 
while to my wife I was quite insensitive

This woman's rudeness 
forced me 
to look at my situation 
from a different perspective
It has made me appreciate my wife
to love her  - even more

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